So most of you can probs tell I'm a girl. I need a guys input on what guys like when being asked to a dance. I'm desperate and need ideas and collective creativity here....

Everyone is different i guess, so it depends on the guy.. However i think most guys would prefer if you were just straight up (i know i prefer people to come right out with whatever they're wanting to say).

"Hi, do you want to dance?". Works like a charm. 

 

Or if you are going to "a dance"; "Hi, do you want to go to the dance with me?" - It's not the easiest thing to do, and it takes courage. Never fun to gamble with feelings, putting yourself on the line, but it may be worth it in the end :) Good luck!

There's no point in dancing around the subject, just be straight forward.

 

See what I did there?

"Do you even dance, bro?"

No seriously just ask us to dance.

"Would you like to dance with me?"

Easy peasy.

"Hi would you like to dance with me"

See, works perfectly, don't be afraid.

"Hi, do you want to dance?". Works like a charm. 

 

Or if you are going to "a dance"; "Hi, do you want to go to the dance with me?" - It's not the easiest thing to do, and it takes courage. Never fun to gamble with feelings, putting yourself on the line, but it may be worth it in the end :) Good luck!

 

Basically this ^

It's more the feelings, rather than the words for me. Good Luck

I don't always ask another guy for a dance but when I do, I make sure to practice this courtship dance first.

Uh.. Just act hot or something..

Challenge him to a dance off :)

But seriously, Just come right out with it, If he says no, he's not worth bothering with in the first place.

Most of all, just be yourself.

I Have a saying. Since i am a major swifty.. Of course it has to relate to her.

"Stay Fearless."

Do exactly that, Ask him straight up.. You should have nothing to worry about, If that picture is in fact actually you, You are pretty, So i doubt much could go wrong. Just ask him, Hell if he says no. It's his loss..

Hope all ends well.. PM Me after with an update, I'd like to know.
   
 -Tay tay swizzle
 

Honestly it does depend on the guy, but most guys would like it if you were straight up asking them to dance. 

Thanks guys!

Ask and complement. Us guys love that.

"Would you like to dance with me?"

Easy peasy.

 

 

"Hi would you like to dance with me"

See, works perfectly, don't be afraid.

 

Easier typed than done. For some people.

For guys asking girls, look like John Herd, have an afro, wear glasses, a burgundy suit(from the thrift store), hunt wolverines(with a 12 gauge), an anorexic llama, a tricked out BMX bike(with pegs), be a campaign manager for class president, and an awesome friend(*cough:PEDRO!*cough)

As if I haven't made it clear enough

Edited January 29, 201511 yr by 43lincoln

Lmao Just be confident, be yourself and ask him, But really he should be asking u and dw he'll probably say yes bc your pretty!

At least I'm lucky where I've always this one girl come to me. I don't think I'd ever be able to do it where I would have to go up to a girl and ask.

 

The best thing to do is just be straight forward. Hope you don't dance around the idea for too long #terriblepuns

aww :) go up to him be very sweet look him in the eyes and smile. ask him very kindly im sure he will definitely say yes. you seem like a very nice kind and shy girl i cant see why any guy would not want to dance with you.

Don't put him on the spot but be direct. If it was me being asked any other way I'm sure I'd screw it up.