My Best Friend passed away this morning from Cancer. She was a strong fighter and a beautiful woman.. I liked her and never got the chance to tell her. Im lost right now and i dont know what to do. How do you all cope with a loss like this?

 

My Tip of Advice:

If you Like/Love someone, tell them. Because today is a Gift and Tomorrow is never promised.

 

Tomorrow is never promised, so live for today. Put your ego aside, open your eyes to who and what's around you. You are loved. You are cared for. You are blessed, always remember that. - Junethea Crystal Centeno

 

I'm extremely sorry to hear that man, having lost numerous relatives from cancer I know exactly how you feel.

 

If I've had some bad news, I usually deal with it by taking up a new hobby.

 

For example, when my girlfriend left me for another guy, I was extremely angry, upset and completely heartbroken. So, I took up the guitar. Few months down the line and I can now successfully play some of my favourite songs, it helped take my mind off her completely, I came out of it with a new skill that I enjoy throughly.

 

So that's my advice to you, find a new hobby like a musical instrument, hang out with friends. Don't sit indoors all day, I did and that just caused me to think back which in turn upset me.

 

 

If i had the money to purchase a guitar i would definitely buy one ha..but i dont know what else to do..i have no idea at all, like she was literally my everything. Talking and texting her 24/7...and i have no one now..

Sorry to hear that dude, I've had a couple of my friends pass away in the past few years as well, including my Cat I grew up with.

 

It's hard to deal with, I don't believe in Time Healing All Wombs, but time definitely does make coping much easier.

 

Best thing I can think of, keep your mind on your life, school, friends, games, et cetera, I always found that helped.

Thats what im doing right now, but it doesnt help that my grandfather was diagnosed with cancer about a week ago plus my ex is trying to get back with me and the more she trys, the more it brings back memories of her and i...It sucks badly

Thats what im doing right now, but it doesnt help that my grandfather was diagnosed with cancer about a week ago plus my ex is trying to get back with me and the more she trys, the more it brings back memories of her and i...It sucks badly

 

I know exactly how you are feeling right now... I lost my grandmother two years ago to cancer, and I was very close to her. I did something similar to what Harper did, but instead of starting a new hobby, I did one that I really enjoyed, which was basketball. I played almost everyday at my nearest park, for about three months. Eventually I got my mind off of it and it didn't affect me as much anymore.

 

I am deeply sorry for your loss, and I hope you feel better very soon. '

 

Joey :)

I'm sorry for your loss man...how I usually cope with sad things is watch Ellen DeGeneres, she makes my day feel 10x better in less than 5 mins. you should try watching her, she is on channel 12 on DirecTV.

Thank yall for the support. Its Hard too Joey because i lost my grandmother back in 2010 to breast cancer. Its just, hard. To realize that they are gone it just sucks :/

Just wanted to say sorry for your loss....... 

It will get easier with time so hang on in there....

Remember she will be watching and guiding you ..

All the best for the future and stay strong ..

Andy

When my Uncle passed away, I felt sick to my stomach for a while. He had broken his hip in 2007 and had been in the hospital for years before he finally went. After he died, I took up the hobby of Scale Model Railroading. The meticulous nature of it and the constant need for attention really helped take my mind of things.

 

I know that may not help you and I am sorry for your loss.

my ex is trying to get back with me and the more she trys, the more it brings back memories of her and i...It sucks badly

 

That sucks to hear man, my ex earlier attempted to make me look like I'd done the wrong thing and started a massive argument with myself, best thing to do is to just be a man about it and ignore it.

 

Listen to your heart, is it something you'd want? Did the good times outweigh the bad?

 

I think I can safely say the community is here for you, which is really heartwarming to see.

 

i had the same problem, i new someone on here for like 3 days and next thing i now i get a message saying he died:(.

My Best Friend passed away this morning from Cancer. She was a strong fighter and a beautiful woman.. I liked her and never got the chance to tell her. Im lost right now and i dont know what to do. How do you all cope with a loss like this?

 

My Tip of Advice:

If you Like/Love someone, tell them. Because today is a Gift and Tomorrow is never promised.

 

Tomorrow is never promised, so live for today. Put your ego aside, open your eyes to who and what's around you. You are loved. You are cared for. You are blessed, always remember that. - Junethea Crystal Centeno

Sorry to hear Andrew. Best of luck buddy :]

Edited March 1, 201313 yr by STARTairsoft780

Thank you all for helping me everyone. I greatly appreciate it. Yall really dont know how much yall are helping me

 

As for gtapolicetrucker, do what Harper says...

Edited March 1, 201313 yr by AndrewL129

I know how ya feel, first my grandmother passed away from lung cancer from about 13 years ago now, then my aunt's passed away, my bestfriend hung himself, eventually got numb to it, said to hell with family and moved away, never felt a thing when my grandfather passed away, may sound horrible, but you can only hurt so much before you don't feel a thing.

It all sucks and hurts the most...Im already suffering from PTSD (No i was not in the military, you dont need to be in the military to suffer from PTSD) and this adding ontop of it hurts

It all sucks and hurts the most...Im already suffering from PTSD (No i was not in the military, you dont need to be in the military to suffer from PTSD) and this adding ontop of it hurts

As said up above try to take a new hobby. Get it off your mind. Just sitting around cring isn't going to make things better. Sorry what happened.

If you don't mind me asking how did you get PTSD?

I have had traumatic things happen in my life such as about 1 year ago i watched my friend get hit and killed by a drunk driver crossing the street. Just from a situation like that, you can get PTSD. Mine was not just traumatic things, it is relationship things along with traumatic. Watching one of your friends physically die in front of you and then losing the girl you love the most on top of that is enough to cause PTSD, and that is my case.

 

Im currently looking in to trying out airsoft. Ive been a fan of it and always watch MilsimJunkie1 on YouTube but havent really had the money to purchase equipment. Im going to start saving my cash to try that out.

Andrew,

 

I really sorry to hear that.... I understand how you feel.... I lost my Uncle a few years ago.... And I was very close to him.... It wasn't easy.... It took a while for me to adapt to not having this uncle of mine. Its isn't easy to cope with the loss of someone you really know, like or love.... It really hurts when you miss them so much but you can't really talk to them or do anything with them any more.... What i did to overcome this was to tell myself... those times were the best but it's time to move on. He or she also wants you to move on... Just tell yourself... what ever you are doing that person is in heaven watching you looking out for you because they care. Tell yourself that he or she will always been in your heart and tell yourself that he or she believes in you because the know what you are capable of. Also as time goes by don't forget that they are always up there looking our for you. It took me 6 months to let this go. It wasn't easy.... I too have lost a best friend once... it really hurts.... But sometimes it is destiny. 

 

Right now there are other things you can do to overcome this. I for did do something I like and that was to play some soccer and I played a lot and it helped. Lastly, Bro anything you can confide me I am ready to be your listening ear... just drop me a PM.

 

Your Sincerely,

 

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