The definition for marriage is unity or partnership between Man and woman.love and marriage are two different things. I can love chocolate cake but that doesn't mean I should walk down the aisle and marry the cake. same sex marriage is like trying to stick the key to the city in a apartment room door It just doesn't fit. My conclusion is be whoever you are, but don't ruin holy matrimony, that's between man, woman, and God. And he doesn't approve of anything other than that unity.