IS there any mod that will make the traffic cars act alittle smarter? If i pull over on the side of th road almost 99% of the time traffic will stop beside me and or crash into each other stopping traffic.. This is really dumb that they do this and i can be 3-5 feet from the road...

Traffic in general - no. But there are one or two mods that halt some of the overtaking behavior when you use your emergency flashers.

Abraxas soon to be released

There's no perfect fix for the AI's silliness that I'm aware of.

However, I've been using this script mod with decent success. You'll still get an occasional bad driver rammin' your trunk, but I've definitely noticed a pretty good overall improvement. Give this a try -

http://www.gta4-mods.com/script/less-overtaking-f15306

Hope it helps! :)

Traffic in general - no. But there are one or two mods that halt some of the overtaking behavior when you use your emergency flashers.

Abraxas soon to be released

Your welcome, cheers!

I too am using that mod and it works very well. No more overtaking during a routine stop is a bit unrealistic, but its better than getting rammed everytime.

not only does it stop them, I find that when they do pass you, they are slower, and a little more realistic.