It seems like in all the screenshots these skin creators put with their the lights look so bright and colorful. But then once i install the textures the lights are terrible i cant see them at all when its day in the game and i still can barely see them at night, and even then they are not that bright?? What do i do to be able to see them and make them look all pretty and colorful? Please someone help me! Ill love you long time if you help me, i wont even charge you $5 for sucky sucky.

Radiance V mod + Shaders and PostFX options set to high or above :)

I use Not Too Bright Lights in combination with EEL (Enhanced Emergency Lightning which gives beautiful corona's and promises realistic reflection) but indeed, set or keep the Shader and PostFX settings on high or above.

If this is not bright enough for you there is also a version called Bright Lights which is also best to be used with EEL.