Hello OfficerChris1,
Thank you for taking a look for me! I deleted my commandline.txt in my gta main folder and it works, I didn't disable mods or plugins or anything, simply deleting that text solved the problem for right now. The game loads in full screen with all plugins disabled on startup, so I just manually reload all plugs thru the command line and it works, so thank you for the tips! If I run into another problem I will try your other suggestions but for now it works so thankyou so much.