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I suggest moving all asi files out of your GTA V folder temporarily. 
Then rename _dinput8.dll to dinput8.dll again.
Then test the asi files one by one by moving them back into the GTA V folder.
 
Once you're done, don't forget to rename all the other things back to their original names. This should be your last step though.

Note: The OpenIV.asi is responsible for loading your mods folder (as well as any other modified .rpf's if there are any) if you didn't know that.

Okay, thanks.
 
Next you can also disable your scripts folder (rename it to _scripts). Try loading the game and play.

If it still crashes, also rename the dinput8.dll to _dinput8.dll. This will disable all .asi files in your main GTA V folder from being loaded. 

Let me know which of these steps worked.

i launched game without vfs and mods, and i verified game files. nothing worked 😞

OMG THANK YOU IT WORKED

You could try disabling the Ambient Spawns in the lspdfr.ini (located in  GTA V/lspdfr ).
Change the following line from false to true:
AmbientSpawn.DisableRandomUnits = true
 
You could also try whether disabling your mods folder helps. Rename it to "_mods" and retry. If your game works without crashes it would mean that something in your mods folder most likely caused the crash earlier.