I have an intermittent crashing issue in game usually 10 minutes in game

New to the forums, been using LSPDFR for a long time now. I'd appreciate any direction and assistance possible to resolve a few long dealt with issues and a more recent crash that's getting a bit annoying. I know sometimes people will ask for logs, I'm not sure what will be needed to start looking into these issues but I can provide with some direction. I do feel that some may be easy things I'm overlooking and others may be difficult. So anyway, here I go. To start, I cannot start GTA with Rage plugin hook, every time I've always had to load GTA to the menu screen then ALT-TAB to desktop load RAGE wait for the watermark to disappear(if i don't wait and ALT-TAB too quick back to GTA when loading singleplayer mode it crashes before gameplay.) This has always happened no matter what game version I've had and no matter how vanilla the install. I've followed albo's directions 1000 times, I think I'm still forgetting something. Sometimes GTA "gives me good days" where everything works no problem for a whole session and I don't know why. I'd say 70% of the time it crashes at some point. I run a lot of texture mods, police cars are all ELS cars, no replacement traffic cars, I use retexture as well no issues there though, I've had an issue with Parks dev but somehow I think I've fixed the issue with Better EMS. Got a few mods for MP Female as well, for I use that as a custom ped on and off duty. A few add on cars and that's all GTA lets me have idk how everyone can get something like 500 add on cars(not that i need it) but I'd like the option to be open when i see something and don't have to sacrifice. I've never been successful with add on DLC folders they always crash my game. I don't play anywhere as much as I have in the past mostly because the issues have grown over the updates for GTA, when I get frustrated I turn the Xbox on and play destiny 2 for a bit or maybe watch TV. But more and more I  am running into hiccups and I'm at a point that if I were to start off fresh I'd have just as many issues with GTA and double the frustration. I lose textures sometimes after i play for a while I'll run the cleanworld command and clear tasks command maybe cleanup for plugins here and there but doesn't help sometimes world textures will have a harder time loading after doing that. Anyway i feel like that's not even the half of it and to me it sounds like I'm going on and on with things that are minor set backs but I just love playing GTA LSPDFR so much and I would love to get all my mods to run in harmony I've got my perfect mixture of modification to make the game truly mine but I'm tired of having to restart and restart to just keep hoping the next launch will maybe run smoothly. Weather its some coding, files misplaced or missing or not good enough hardware I'm willing to do what it takes to make a great GTA rig! This one PC im using is an exclusive GTA only rig I keep it clean and free of anything just to play GTA smoothly, everything else I use separate computers/laptops for. Yet again any help is deeply appreciated, and just let me know what you'd need for starting this diagnosis.

P.S. : As an automotive technician that does a lot of odd ball diags and my father being a PC/MAC/network server tech I do realize how much of a pain in the ass I'm being and will be with all this knit picking